Nutty Chick or anyone else that has been there...


How exactly do I do this? I feel that this is exactly where I want to go right now.

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You are not detached … but are acting detached. My H did a similar thing and didn’t let me know how much I was hurting him. I thought he didn’t care. I thought he wasn’t bothered. He didn’t act bothered …

Better to truly detach .. go through the pain and maybe, if you feel able begin a friendship.


I still have this hope that he is waiting to come back and I will be here .I want to get past this feeling. I can't hold back and wait.

I can't keep busing myself with yardwork, housework and work work, just so that I don't have to think about when he will peek around the corner.

I want to move ahead for me. I need to for myself.

I don't know how.

I feel as though I'm floundering, I'm going nowhere.

How do I detach and act like I really am/have????



Anyone please????

Last edited by enlightenbylife; 07/20/08 05:26 PM.

"Sometimes in the winds of change, we find our true direction"

Being the calmness in the storm......