Glad you got a good nights rest....I hope they continue.
I think it is a good idea not to fight the Sep/D but don't assist it. It is his car to drive now. I have found in my sitch and other similar ones, that the WAS feels like they have been controlled, even though the LBS often doesn't see it that way (sometimes they feel like they have been controlled). I think it is great that you can see that.
It will be a big step if you two can be friends again and have opportunties to show how much fun you are to be around! The dteachement sure does take quite a bit of pressure off you as well..lets you relax and be yourself....the person he fell in love with
Best Wishes
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning