Week has passed since the fallout. There is determination on my part to keep up my GAL and no contentious comments on my part. After last week and telling that girl he has not SLEPT with me at all for a long long time. That was it. He cut out anything that was left. So it isn't that difficult to live with him, be cordial and secure my finances. Making sure the house is safe and secure for my son and no conflict.
Last night I was watching a movie with him and he asked me to do a favor for him. Then he stoped. So I turned and said what kind of favor. He asked me to call this guy to see if he can rent his place to work out of. Not all of the situation is explained here. Just know that h business consists of this girls animal and one other. LIKE I WOULD SECURE A PLACE FOR HER!!! I just sat there and thought-if he thinks I am so dumb as to call this guy and make sure he can move there and have a place for him and her...I must have dumb written all over me. So I said sure. The women where he works out of now won't like what he has done and said to me last weekend, she has been gone. Also her daughter was the one that chewed out the girl and told her to leave.
So H is thinking that either A) this girl is going to be kicked off the place B) he will be kicked out. Either way why the h*ll would I call to make sure they had a place to work together. Seriously to tell me he just appeases me, lies about sleeping together sits down for a D talk. The D is fine by me, just leave. To ask me to call so she and H can have a place to work then see if he can rent his house and then he can leave you/son and not care what happens. Yeah right. I really wanted to just to tell him off and have kept myself under control. Wow he is so passive aggressive. Can't make a call even.
Last edited by Peaches40; 07/20/0803:47 PM.
Me 48 H 54 Together 30 yrs M 29 yrs S 24 s 17 EA 10-2007 Denies it every happened
