FG~ I text H at 8pm local time and said "hope you have a nice weekend" as of now, no msg back....guess we shall seee...guess nothing is better than drama!!
christa
H-32 Me-29 T-10years M-4yr (10/04) Me- WAW 1/07 I filed for D 2/07 D put on hold 5/07 H re-files for D 9/08 WOW! trying MC 10/08
"Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt!"
FG~ I wish I would have known your birthday was last week...I'm sorry...so a little late...Happy Birthday!!! Did you do anything exciting??
I spent time on the boat yesterday...indulged in some Budlight and jolly rancher flavored shakeups (fruit sugar ice and watermelon/and plain vodka...my family calls it yucca)It was oodles of fun!! We cruised til about 11 last night, the full moon was gorgeous! Needless to say, today has been a lazy day!!
Hope your weekend is going great!
Still no word or words from the H...
take care, happy belated b-day fg thank you for taking care of me! christa
H-32 Me-29 T-10years M-4yr (10/04) Me- WAW 1/07 I filed for D 2/07 D put on hold 5/07 H re-files for D 9/08 WOW! trying MC 10/08
"Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt!"
I am glad you had a nice evening. Thank you for the birthday wishes.
It seems he is following a bit of a pattern here.. no response to texts.. then some action. Be prepared. You have some guidelines here.
At this point you have addressed his issue and it is up to him.. when to act.
I spent the whole day yesterday working in the yard.. but it looks nice. I think we are going to clean up inside today. I will be checking in.. so if something comes up.. let me know.
Have a great rest of the weekend.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
Finally made it through all of your threads! Phew, took a while but at least I can see the whole picture now.
I guess it's no surprise, but what I see constantly in your interactions is that your H is angry. He's angry with you for leaving, was and still is. Most of his actions are a reaction to that. He probably wants to do things to you emotionally that will make you feel what he has been feeling, anrgy, hurt, rejected. Kissing the woman in the bar being a case in point. I guess you need to do wait for the anger to subside or do something to draw it out. Whether that's sensible depends on your bravery and what kind of man he is.
Is he still seeing the OM? What did you do about the apology to you FIL/MIL?
Take care,
Max
Me 36 W 37 Bomb (Easter 07) Sep (WAW July 07) "It's over" (end Oct 07) T10.5 years, M2 (before bomb)
Hey Christa, I just read through your threads and I was wondering if you could stop by my thread. I've got a WAW sitch in full swing and I would love to get your insight on things.
You too Forrest, for that matter! It just so happens that I'm free Tues. and Thurs. too!
Thanks guys, I need all the help I can get.
B
My Story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1512790&page=1#Post1512790
