It seems like a lot of stories are that the WAS wants to reconcile, but the LBS has moved on.
breton, That's interesting, because as I've been reading this thread, the feeling I got was that the LBS "waits" in vain and the S rarely returns. Of the few that did try to return, I got the feeling that they just weren't ready.
Goes to show how we all interpret things differently - probably based on what we are feeling individually and what we want/need to see/believe at the moment.
NNP, Whatever you had with the guy you loved in college is just a fantasy. He didn't even know the real you. As you said, contacting him will only bring trouble. Keep those thoughts in your head or here on the board.