Hey everyone. I've been unable to post lately as my father is in town and I also have my D. They are both in bed now, so I thought I'd catch you all up.
As expected, W flip-flopped several times again. She is truly interesting to pay attention to these days and her actions do force me to stay very, very guarded. Well, first of all, on Wednesday, when my father arrived, she asked me about some potential committments at work in the fall, and I told her, I didn't know my plans as of yet. I also told her I'd resigned as the head of the social studies department, so I may not have to do as much this year.
She was very curious and asked me why and I told her I have more important things to spend my time on. Well, this pissed her off as she replied w/ "Now you see this? I am done." I responded by telling her this whole process has opened my eyes and I see things differently than I did before. Her response: "Too late." I let that one go.
Later that night, she offered me to have my D for an extra day, so I took it. The plan was for D to go to her old daycare to see some friends and I'd pick her up late to allow her the most time. I thanked her for the extra time offer and looked forward to Friday w/ my D.
Well, I picked up D at closing time (6 pm) and we all went out to sushi (D's choice). Shortly after 6 W sent a text berating me for having priorities other than my D as she said daycare called her frantically asking if anyone was going to pick up D. W accused me of golfing instead of getting D and of putting her low on my priority list. She even did the old "you will NEVER change."
So, I replied telling her I thought we'd agreed to let D stay as late as possible to play and that I had picked her up at 6, so I have no idea why they would have called her. Of course, W didn't reply.
W then sent another text accusing me of not answering my phone so she could talk w/ D. I had D call her after dinner and then sent a text to W later in the evening telling her our dog was pretty depressed b/c he has to wear a cone on his head to avoid biting out his stitches.
Nothing more came from her on Friday and yesterday was pretty tame. We were at Chuck E. Cheese's when W called for D. D didn't want to talk then, so I talked briefly to W about the dog and his cone issues. W was cold and distant, and I just let it ride. D did call her later and also left a message for her around 7:30 or so. We came home, did the night time stuff and turned in. I receive a text from W at 11:30 saying "hope D is ok." What is that about?
Oh, well. I'll see what she has to offer up today. We'll be at the Diamondbacks' game this afternoon and then we'll grill steaks for dinner. Nothing else major is planned but I'm still curious as to what part of W will surface today.
Yes, she's been coming closer, but she's still so wildly inconsistent, that its waaaaaay too soon to start to think she's having a complete change of heart. So, still guarded, but curious as to what may come next.
Talk to you later. RTL PS - Lodo, I've heard I need 30 minutes or more of cardio to lose weight correctly. Is that correct?
