No, sex was just a nice benefit after being with my wife, who never initiates, never wants to talk about what she likes, never really relaxes or acts passionate - you get the idea. What I meant but didn't write was that DC and I got along really well and I enjoyed her company. Anyway, I don't want a R with current DC and am afraid my need to talk and rely on a friend these past months has led her to ... well, I shouldn't even give this energy. I just don't want to lead anyone on.
I don't cook THAT much. I mean, I do - I cook every night - but it's no big deal. I usually have people over for dinner every 2-3 weeks. And it doesn't take long. I usually do some sort of veggie conglomerate on some sort of carbohydrate. 25 mins to make tops.
Does food clash? I thought colors clashed. When I lived in the SW we had potlucks ALL the time - much fun. No one here knows how to have a potluck. We tried a couple of times and everyone showed up with either crackers and cheese or french bread and a spread.
