If you are here to give your wife a chance, then leave your affair.
My H didn't tell me about his unhappiness. In hindsight, I have little hints that maybe something was wrong. But he never SHARED his feelings with me and now he is in an EA with a woman online and it is devastating to me because I would do anything to let him how much I care for him but he is checked out in fantasy land.
You say you would never hurt her or the children. But you are, whether you want to admit it or not.
M 39 H 34 D 6 M almost 8 years T 11 years Bomb: 6/5/08
