accepting the fact that when you look at your H you will not see your H is a big step. as is the idea to treat him as a brother.

a good femal friend asked me how the movie night went with my W. i told her it was good just as if i had taken you to the movies. she was confused why that was agood think but for me it ment i was sucessful at being her friend.

in order for them to see the grass is not greener when need to ensure that it truly is not. when they fell in love with us it was a relaxed and casual enviroment for them to do so. giving him his space and treatinghim as a brother is a perfect way make things more casual.

so i know that this has been a very hard week for you but what have you been doing for yourself. I hate the fact that we have to be so internal in healing ourselves without the supportof a partnar but it is important to do so and i hope you are finding a chance to do things for you and have a bit of fun

Me 27, W26
T-12 M-4
SEP 4/29/08
Holding
250 miles
Awaiting
Support
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