Good job with the contact. The other bit is a bit more or a worry . I am a bit tired so the old brain is not working too well at the moment. I am trying to put myself in your H's shoes and he is realy showing a lot of jealousy. He still wants you under his control I would say and you are not playing his game right now and thats got him spinning. Right now he is trying to figure if your recent changes have been due to an OM. This is not the actions of someone who is done and he is not liking these new boundaries.