Dave, Puppy, Gypsy & Jen,

All good feedback, thanks!

After leaving another VM last night wanting to talk to S5, & another one again this evening, H finally left a message at my mother's house to have S5 call him. (She said her phone rang all day, a message was never left though.)

When I arrived, I dialed for S5 & held the phone to his ear. It must have been a very unsatisfying call, b/c S kept saying he didn't want to talk & gave a couple of short answers to "are you having fun?", "who are you playing w/right now?", said Good Bye & wanted to hang up, so I did w/out a word from me. It was all of 30 seconds, but fulfilled his request.

I found something out today that has me a little disturbed.
H has had a PI investigating "The yacht guy" that I lightly dated. I haven't been w/anyone except H, but he doesn't know that. It was pretty extensive; financial history, marriage history & pictures of the yacht. It was done after the 4th of July weekend, after I turned him down on taking everyone (SIL,boyfriend & nephew) to the beach for the day that Sunday, & 3 days after I ignored his offer to take back "The Offer", if I would let him spend the 4th w/us.

It was a couple of days later that he checked my phone & probably my computer.

Why would he do that?

I feel the pressure mounting...better get some sleep so I can handle it well.

Sunny


M-7 yrs
together-8 yrs
S-4yr
S-15yr

Bomb-4/25/07
Sep-same day
me-49
H-49

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