Twerpled on the Head with a Magic Kumquat

[gForce]

Never feel like an idiot for fighting for your marriage. Isn't that the reason we all came here in the first place? Who is to say when enough is enough? Nobody but you! If you have the desire and energy, still have the fight in you -- then fight the fight and we will be behind you all the way.

Just because you don't NEED him doesn't mean you still WANT him and your M. You can desire it and work for it, even if you know you will be happy with your future without him. There are a lot of ways it is defined around here, but I think that is the "loving detachment" that we keep hearing about. If you are there (wanting but not needing) then you've achieved a major success already. You are a wonderful person. It is too bad H is blind to it but don't apologize for trying to open his eyes.