Ian, I really appreciate your feedback. It makes so much sense. Tomorrow I find my voice and end my waiting for him to decide if he wants to love me. It's time to move forward. He needs to tell me if he's ready to put 110% into making our marriage better, making me a priority, and giving me what I NEED.

Deauxlie, you sweet southern belle, thank you so much. I don't NEED him. I need a man who will appreciate me for being ME and love and cherish me. I don't need to feel like someone's paid help.


M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence