Trixi trying to find moorage

[Trixi]

Hmmm....
That's a very interesting perpective. And you are correct, I was wanting to make sure everything was clear. Because of how he speaks sometimes (vaguely), I don't want to leave it to chance. I'm afraid that down the road he could say "and then there was the night you did XYZ", I say "but you forgave me" and he says "I never said that I forgave you."

But I do see your point. I was also thinking on the way to the murder mystery about when my H was actually moving towards me and not away. Back then, things were just fun and light. Of course, I could also feel that he was moving towards me, so it was "easier". Now that I feel him moving away, coupled with the time factor, it is hard for me to feel fun, light and flirty. I feel tired, annoyed, sad, impatient and hopeless. I am getting tired of being a "secret". We've been dating since the beginning of the year, he went to Costa Rica with me for 12 days and I am still a secret?? I think that most girls would be ticked off by now.

Anyway- thanks for the observation, and I think I understand what you mean. It sure is interesting to get other people's perspectives.