I don't know if you'll ever understand. I don't buy into what he's saying, but in the off chance that he's being honest (finally) then he's failed you, himself and his children. And to bring a child into this world as an effort to save a "failing" marriage is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard. Does he realize what he's saying???

One of my DB buddies has been married 25 years and her h is telling her he's never been happy, yet he always told EVERYONE how much he loved his wife up until a month before he left.

It's insane.

((((lmg)))))


M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence