I don't know if you'll ever understand. I don't buy into what he's saying, but in the off chance that he's being honest (finally) then he's failed you, himself and his children. And to bring a child into this world as an effort to save a "failing" marriage is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard. Does he realize what he's saying???
One of my DB buddies has been married 25 years and her h is telling her he's never been happy, yet he always told EVERYONE how much he loved his wife up until a month before he left.
It's insane.
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M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence