as I'm in the same boat, I don't have an advice. It could be me writing your post, minus details: I'd prefer H hanging out with a bunch 20 yo (which is evidently an ilness), to H firmly attached to OW. May be you should find an oldtimer, whose story resembles yours, and ask for some guide lines.
You were great on the phone, I'm so proud of you!
Hang in there, (((((((HUGS)))))))
I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders ____________________________________________________ M 46 H 45 D 17 M/T 23 Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06 Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07 Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08
