Hey, Dawn! I came across your post in Breton's thread and noticed we had some similarities (my depression last year and the OW, etc. I like to write as well! Glad to "meet" you, but of course sorry you're here...
I've read your posts and it sounds like your H has noticed your changes, likes what he sees, but is afraid they are just temporary or maybe motivated by the OW, and if he committed to you again or reconciled that you might revert back to depression or whatever stuff that he wasn't happy about? I do think it is best living together to increase your chances of reconciling, and if you keep maintaining the changes you've already made, and maybe add another 180 or 2, whatever you think would be good for you and once your H realizes the changes are permanent, I think you have a great chance of working this out. Karen
