Nobody's going to beat you up here, buddy. Everybody here has lived through a sex-starved marriage. Either we were the LD side (that's you, I guess) or we were the HD side (that's me, I guess.)
The catch is that once you start trying to fix things, you find out that the HD side is usually doing something that drives the LD side's desire further down than it already was. None of us are sitting above it all. We all screwed something up somewhere, or we wouldn't be here.
But I'd start your own thread if you want to talk about your marriage. You said it yourself; this one is too huge. You won't get much attention in here.
