Its likley too early to expect her to be thinking about reconcile at all, BUT...I have to warn you NOW so you don't screw this up :
1. If she ever says she wants to meet to discuss her possibly reconciling or suggests it in convo do NOT LEAP. 2. If she shows any sign of pursuit (her thank you is a VERY MILD persuit on her part, but I mean something more explicit) just act casual. 3. If she tries to kiss you, just act casual. Let her, but then pull away. You want her to pursue a bit...you MUST keep that space in there until the other man is out of hte picture.
Any time she moves forward and gets too close, you have to put some space in there again. Thats what you being cool now and not pressuring her has done. You gave her some space. Until OM is gone you have to keep some space in there, EVEN when SHE doesn't want it there. Keep the space there so you both can breathe, otherwise SHE will end up running away on you.
Let her breathe, even when she doens't look like she wants to.
Be nice, tell her please, thank you, everything's great, but that you would like both of you to meet with your pastor to talk things through before getting any closer, something like that.
IF she asks...but never initiate that. Let her lead the dance for now. Just watch her and move as she does, leaving enough room between you to breathe...again much like a dance....keep some space in there.
