from IMP: The work of DBing

[sleeper]

"Most people have told me to give up on him. It is easier to have some empathy thinking of him in a crisis."

Totally!

We know something is not right with our spouses. We know them better than anyone else. All others see is what our spouss have done to us and they project that onto themselves, how they would feel and react if it happened to them. Thus, their advice.

Of course they do not love our spouses as we do and therefore respond from a purely self-centered position. I say this because they often omit consideration for the children who are often involved.

"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, It keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perserveres."

1 Corinthians 13 4-7

Got love?