Seeking out the help of a counselor is great, allowing you to have another frame of reference which is focused solely on your wellbeing. Decisions like this shouldn't be made alone in your head.
I value your wisdom and insight more than you can imagine. You've given me so much to ponder. I do need to talk with him. It's time to start addressing what I need.
I'm going to think about the questions you've posed.
Thanks so much, wonderful lady.
I took photos of the paintings, btw and posted in the alternate universe just for you!
xo, R
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence