I often wonder the same, and if anyone thinks you're the world's biggest idiot, then I must be the universe's #1 moron.
But you have three boys and you're working to create a complete family for them. I don't think you're a moron. I think your husband is a moron! And a f*cktard! Oh, and DAM!!! But I think you're a wonderful woman and magnificent mother trying her very best to keep her family intact.
Thanks for your support, friend. (((((GF)))))
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence