Stella, I'm not the best person to advise you with that particular question. But if you look at my experience, I put pressure on my H about no contact, wanting honesty/trust and that has sent him over the edge, right back into the midst of Replay because he obviously wasn't fully out of the tunnel. I am struggling each day with confronting him or giving him space. I'll be interested in seeing other people's advice.
(((((HUGS)))))
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz
