You are in my prayers, girlfriend. You are doing what I was doing when it was NOT working. My best advice is to keep a low key, not only in actions, but also in tone of voice. When he is nice, there is a reason for you to be nice back to him. When he is not nice, there is STILL a reason for you to be nice back to him. He loves you but he is still angry at whatever was wrong in your R. You are in a much better place than I am. My H wants a D and is going through with it, but I am being nice to him anyway because I love him. Make sense?
