I can't even get my w to talk. You just got to work on you and read and read and try to understand how they are feeling even if they dont know themselves. You can't take this personally because the same things are happening to loads of people on here. You may have had apart to play in getting here but at least you are trying to do something about it.
I've been a DAM but didnt know it and am trying to change.
How do you suddenly try to GAL when for a long time W was your life? You just have to!
Its really hard when they are still at home. So close in the same bed but a million miles away emotionally.
Keep scanning these posts and you will be amazed by the good advice and warm generous souls out there.
Kenny
Me:40 WAW, MLC?:39 Kids:S11,S9 T:25, M:14 ILYB:Apr 08 W moved out Aug 08 W:Does not Want to Try
