Brian,

When you try to guess what others think then we are rarely right.

Purple is right. Read your own words and dont doubt yourself. With the help of you and others I am beginning to come to terms with patience, compassion and the long game ahead.

You are in charge of you.

Saw an episode of Malcolm in the Middle last night and at the moment as I try to be strong and independent of my waw the theme tune always makes me smile. "Your not the boss of me now, your not the boss of me now...."

Sticks in my head and in a childish way makes me feel better.

Disregard if this sounds a bit crap but works for me at the moment.


Kenny

Me:40
WAW, MLC?:39
Kids:S11,S9
T:25, M:14
ILYB:Apr 08
W moved out Aug 08
W:Does not Want to Try

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