You are right about not sitting about waiting for her and rotting away. If moving on is what it takes for you to be happy then so be it. I know it sucks but who knows what tomorrow will bring.
I am increasingly frustrated with being caught in Limbo land an need to get on with my life too. I will be 40 next month and want to go into the second half of my life in a positive manner.
Maybe the realisation that what the w is giving up in you will change things around. Always remain hopeful.
Trying hard to keep up with all the latest happenings but not doing great on that front.
Kenny
Me:40 WAW, MLC?:39 Kids:S11,S9 T:25, M:14 ILYB:Apr 08 W moved out Aug 08 W:Does not Want to Try