Hi LS, yeah I kind of "flipped out" myself when I finally got back on line to see what had happened to you. Then when FG did his usual thing with me and my post.....I replied to him on your thread and I apologize for that b/c you are under enough stress without me and Forrest getting into a boxing match. This in nothing new with him......so anyway, didn't mean to make matters worse.

I have to admit that I was angry when I sent that post to you b/c I know you've done all you could to abide by the DB rules and yet she walked all over you and played her little games. She may have been sleeping with the OW right there in the house while you were in your room and thinking this was just a new friend she had coming over. Man! I know you are concerned how this will affect your children. I think you knew what I meant by doing everything you could to get custody of the kids and everything else. When a person does what she has after you have done right by her, then I believe in protecting yourself.

The scripture that someone brought up about "doing unto others as you would have them do unto you" was used out of content....I think. When it comes to business (which, now it has), you have to protect yourself and the kids. What if our country used that scripture when Japan attacked us back in WWII? Where would we be? So, I just use that as an example of how things can be taken out of context.

Anyway, it is your business and how you feel personally about two women raising your children in that environment, but I would have a hard time with it and the influence it could have. I know that probably won't set well with some, but that is my own religious beliefs. I don't even reply to anyone's threads who are gay and come to the DB board for advice. That is their business, their lifestyle, and I don't agree with it, so I just stay away from it.

So, sweetie, you know I wish the best for you and anytime you want to talk to me, you know you can come here to my thread and open up all your frustatations.

I certainly wish you the best.

Take care of yourself and the children. Keep in touch.

Sandi

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!