Originally Posted By: girlfromipanema
I'm wondering if people who read my thread think, "just move on already. Give up. It's not worth it." Do I seem like the world's biggest idiot?


((((((((((((((Sweet Girl))))))))))))))

I often wonder the same, and if anyone thinks you're the world's biggest idiot, then I must be the universe's #1 moron.

You are NOT an idiot. You are a superb individual who, like many of us here, believes in fighting for what/who we love. Even when most of those we love do not deserve all of the time and energy we give them.

Girl, you are amazing. To keep yourself composed while working in the same environment on a daily basis.....WOW. That requires a GREAT deal of strength I know I could never attain. I stand in awe of you.

Please be kind to yourself, and I sincerely hope your H wakes up one day and realizes what he's got before he forever loses the best thing that's ever happened to him - YOU.

((((((((((Hugs))))))))))


Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell