hc, I got tested for EVERYTHING last fall. It was not pleasant, because it's assumed that the testing is because I've been sleeping around.
Since I wasn't about to tell everyone involved why I was getting tested, I just had to put up with it (got a nice little lecture from the doctor who gave me the results about continuing in a certain lifestyle just because there aren't any consequences this time).
My H said the same thing - yup, used a condom every time - but I decided I'd really be an idiot to believe him and that I owed it to myself and my kids to make sure I was okay.
Hopefully your experience will be different. I wasn't really prepared for it, and just wanted to give you a head's up in case you get the same attitude.
You know and we know - hold your head up high.
I like your positive attitude - your future partner is a lucky guy!
