Really upside down #2

[upside_downer]

Thanks, cookie. I appreciate it, I need some steady people to watch my posts and help out. I've been posting quite a bit on others threads, so hopefully more people are going to pop in on mine.

A little update for today: My W left behind quite a bit of boxes and things in the basement because her apartment is so small that she couldn't fit it all. Now that she cleaned up, she is coming to try to get the rest. I'm a little sad because, even though they are just "things," they held a significance that she was still here and there was still hope. I know it doesn't mean anything, but it's hard not to think that way.

Funny thing to me: I got a little upset about her getting her things, but I played it cool. It wasn't until we were talking last week and she was giving me a very cold shoulder that I made a comment of "well, if that's the case (getting your stuff and it not meaning anything), then why don't we just make this S complete and you give me the garage opener and any keys you have"

Wasn't the best thing to say, but she reacted like she was insulted. I think I should take the insult as an indication, though, because if she really didn't care, she wouldn't have been insulted or acted that way.

Today is going to be hard. I've snooped a little and know her ex bf is inviting her out and she is probably going. Honestly, I'm scared he is an OM and she is beginning an EA with him.