Thanks, naej. I thought it was my wireless system or where I was sitting, but it might have been the website taking a nap.
Re: Phil--I feel so bad for his kids; they don't have a chance in the world. And I'm truly afraid he's just going to snap one day soon and do something tragic; definitely if the wife starts seeing someone else that's a huge risk. Aside from those concerns--it's kinda like when you can't stop yourself from looking at a car accident as you drive slowly by the scene.
And I don't know--there's always the likelihood that I'm saying things to him that I need to hear myself. That seems to happen a lot!
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012