When he does talk to me (very rarely), he mostly talks about how confused he is and how unhappy he's been for how long, and how difficult things are for him now (yeah, my heart bleeds for you, H). No remorse or concern for how I might be feeling that I can see.
It is good that he's being honest with you. The fact that he tells you he's confused shows (to me) that he is still considering (even if remotely) saving your M. You changes have caused him to become confused. He's probably wondering why is he letting this attractive woman go?
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Although it does puzzle me why he still lives at home. What is here for him?
Maybe this is part of the confusion? Him moving out might be too "final" for him now. It might be a good thing that he's still here. At least he continues to see the wonderful attractive you and it reminds him of what he's missing out on.
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Then a bit later he came to me and modified his stance: "We can go biking together if you would be willing to talk to me." I said, "Seems like an odd venue for conversation." He said, "I mean in general, at some point, not so much while we're biking." I politely declined.
Maybe he was referring to an R talk about mooving on?
If it was me, I would pray the Hedge of Thorns prayer, and other (personal) prayers for your H, as often each day as possible. Prayer is a powerful weapon to use in our situation. Also, Charlyne recommended playing praise and worship music because praising/worshipping God weakens the Enemy.
