Hey Girlie, if the sex is leaving you feeling used, no matter how generous he's being, you should stop it. Practice saying this word "NO".
You & I seriously need to talk. I think you're being way too sweet & nice & considerate...still buying him oreo's after he's having an EA/PA ?
The lunch & hike thing was just plain rude on his part. He's being a jerk, & he's being a jerk to you, & that just pisses me off, because you're too beautiful inside & out, & caring, & kind, & compassionate for anybody to be a jerk too.
Now you've got some idiot neighbor leaving notes like that. WTF ? You could buy a stuffed dog that looks like yours, then "plant" it on the neighbors lawn, then hide in your house, & wait for the gunshot. Then call the police !!!
I don't know about your PD, but ours won't fingerprint a note threatening a dog. Sorry.
xoxoxo be safe
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
