Did I mention this..
after I spoke to my friend...
hubby called...
I couldnt even be mad at him and not in a doormat kinda way..

in the way that he was being so genuine and so the MAN I have waited years for him to be......I just simply couldnt....
Sometimes I just wanna choke him.
Just kidding but I am Latina after all and I can get a bit dramatic....
but if I can trust him and communicate like we have been then ...
I dunno babbling ..
it is way past my bedtime...

I am going to I am sure talk to him again about my feelings w/o ever bringing this up again. but let him know what I expect to keep me feeling safe with him
Like Ian said .. he isnt the same man he used to be and is this worth battling over..
NO~

Can a Marriage that isnt sex starved anymore be the cure for his cheating ways ?


I hope so...


....there are no guarantess.. I know this *(strong and alive ;\) ) and I can only hope he will keep working on being the real MAN I want him to be.


Thanks for listening Bear...
that meant alot to me...

I really am proud of you .. sorry if I didnt put that in your thread..
take care and keep enjoying your Wife...
she is doing so damn well~
Fantastic Woman you have ..
but you know that already!
;\)
~Ali