Hi U, You have a lot of posts for me to skim over, & offer any type of advice. I see that Phoenixdeaux & Bworl were replying, so that's good. I found that the more I posted on other peoples threads, the more that made them want to come over to my thread.
Have you read my early posts ? That will help you know where your wife may be at.
Read DR, focus on making you better in every way. Be nice when W interacts with you, & don't chase her. How's that in a nutshell ?
take care
I'll be back, I'm just going to be really busy for the next week with my family, but I'll try to check on you. Meanwhile, read as much as you can written by any waw here & try to find one that is similar to your sitch.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
