Twerpled on the Head with a Magic Kumquat

[girlfromipanema]

A. it sounds like H is depressed, EA (sure it isn't PA?), and playing games all at the same time.

B. He's definitely playing mental games on purpose without realizing it - hence the not joining you thing with boss. He's screaming for attention. He's vulnerable, hence OW being able to take advantage of sitch.

A. He's not depressed. I'm 100% sure. The only time he isn't his happy go lucky self is when I'm near. He's angry. He's hurt. He's STUBBORN. But I don't think he's depressed. I almost wish it was depression, because it would give me something to work with.

B. Accidentally on purpose. =)

Thanks for your input, lodo. It's helpful to hear a man's point of view.

The one thing I don't get is why he goes out of his way to please me sexually. If he's playing games - or able to compartmentalize the sex - why not just look out for his enjoyment? Could it be pride? Like he doesn't want his wife to think he isn't a fantastic lover, regardless if he doesn't care for her?