How long does it take for NC to start to give us our sanity back? I am still new to the LR tech, was GAL and being very supportive to him before I filed. It just let him cake eat. Now I am trying to not think about him anymore. That is energy wasted on someone who just doesnt care about me. I want him out of my thoughts but havent achieved it yet. I've got lots of activities planned to keep me busy, but as soon as there is a moment of down time I am itching to check and see if he emailed me. My connection to him is like a drug that I need to quit.

So how long before he starts to fade?


Broken Hearted
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Me - 36
H - 37
S - 8
Married - 1992
ILYNILWY - August 2007
Moved Out - March 2008
OW Revieled - May 28, 2008
Filed for D - July 2, 2008

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