Is W in MLC

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This is all very normal
our WAS are hot and cold
they dont want to give false hope
but I think they enjoy us fighting foi them and in the beginning they know we are trying
they see the changes in us
the way we are suddenly caring for them that we may not have in the M
I believe our MLCers are serious about their leave
they plan on never returning
but then for some of them..it is hard to go
msybee b/c we the LBS have become something they always wanted
but now there is the crises
the OP
and the pull away seems to be very powerful
they have to go and follow it it seems real to them
some return(I personally know 4 couples who reconciled)
but the spouse never moved out in these cases all had affairs and threatened move but didnt
many dont return as well
it is a gamble
probably one we must take
many ups and downs
find ways to take care of yourself
workout, eat right , find something fun and new friends
peace