Ken's situation - Live-in WAW

[mrz99]

First of all 100% total honesty as you understand the situation as regards to yourself. On her side of the story, I would recommend that you make an extreme effort to be quiet and let her talk. I know that my WAW was not totally forthcoming, but I let that pass and I am glad that I did. If she is not forthcoming and open, it will likely only hurt you if you attempt to show any dominance.

I am still trying to get the WAW back to MC (we went twice together and 3 times each individually). She is starting to warm to the idea of going back. She told me more than once that if I had tried to correct her or say things she was not ready for, the sessions would have been over immediately and she would not be considering going back now.

My WAW is still in a lot of pain and hurt that I don't necessarily understand but it is improving. I see glimpses that the hold by the alien abductor is waning.

Best of luck. It sounds like you are already in good shape.

Still, work on yourself and make yourself the best person that you can be. Take pride in how you look and how you treat other people. Empathy is a powerful character trait whether to your wife or other people.