"Hey Hun, I just wanted to give you a call and let you know I got your message. The reality is that I want to be, you know, I want you to be that person... and I love you. I will get back to where I need to be. It's not so much mental anguish to get that going I just want to make sure I'm mentally right. I just don't want it to happen again.. So I love you and I will talk to you later."
WHERE!!! OH MY GOD!!! PRAISE JESUS!!!!!!!!! THIS IS AMAZING NEWS!!!!
I am SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO proud of you and SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO excited for you!!
Congratulations on your job offer!!! Things are really rolling!
LOVELOVELOVELOVELOVELOVELOVELOVE (((((WHERE)))) T
PS I *highly* recommend that you get "passionate marriage" by david snartch!! it is totally blowing my mind and he has a totally new framework for dealing with communication that might be helpful to you and your H!!!