Julia,

Hey girl I'm sorry I've been gone for a little while. I'm still catching up on your thread but I can tell just from what I've read so far that you are making awesome strides!!!!

It is totally about playing it cool. I even think of it as "The Cool Game". It's totally ridiculous and it makes me laugh, but it's the way we gotta roll!!!

I have to tell you too that I am reading "Passionate marriage" by David Snartch and it is totally blowing my mind!!!!!!!! I really recommend that you get it and then we can discuss!!! it is very compatible with DB, but gives a bunch of new tools for growing.

((((((J))))))))
T