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Re: Sending positive vibes to my H! pisces9 #1524470 07/19/08 12:21 AM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 2,978 S smartcookie Member
smartcookie Member S Joined: May 2008 Posts: 2,978	((pisces)), everything sounds fabulous !!! You are doing awesome. I sure don't have any advice for you, just keep doing what you're doing. As far as the invite, my opinion is to call, e-mail & text is safer, but not as personal. M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.

Re: Sending positive vibes to my H! smartcookie #1524785 07/19/08 11:43 AM
Joined: Jun 2008 Posts: 1,834 Western New York N Neilh23 Member
Neilh23 Member N Joined: Jun 2008 Posts: 1,834 Western New York	hey pisces... when you call and ask, leave the decision in his lap, and don't force it. make it natural however, don't get disappointed if he doesn't want to........it's ok. Remember, he's got alot of things going on in his mind and he's still working thru them. i doubt he'll say no, but it doesn't hurt to be prepared.... keep up the PMA!!!!! ME:32 WAW:31 D #1: 3.5 D #2: 2 Together: 13 M:6 Bomb Dropped: 2/15/08 Sep legally: 6/18/08 "Tommorrow there'll be sunshine, and all this darkness past..." -Bruce Springsteen Land of Hope and Dreams

Re: Sending positive vibes to my H! Neilh23 #1524975 07/19/08 05:03 PM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 1,068 Nor Cal P pisces9 OP Member
OP pisces9 Member P Joined: May 2008 Posts: 1,068 Nor Cal	thanks Neil- i will not take it personally if he says no...i will understand...he may say this and not want to push things...i just dont really know what he is fweling right now... i went to a coldplay concert with a girlfriend last night and we laughed soo much - i almost cried once but i made it through it $\:\)$ thanks SC- thats very sweet of you- makes me feel good and strong! thanks everyone for helping me- it is so important for me to get boosts here! Pisces M 31 H 32 M 7 yrs S 5/10 Beginning Contact! Vibes Hot Tub Cheese

Re: Sending positive vibes to my H! pisces9 #1525011 07/19/08 05:55 PM
Joined: Jul 2008 Posts: 1,118 P poet Member
poet Member P Joined: Jul 2008 Posts: 1,118	Good morning Pisces, How are you today? I noticed you were online. So, I'm just stopping in to say hello. When is your birthday? Mine is 2/23. s

Re: Sending positive vibes to my H! poet #1525020 07/19/08 06:09 PM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 1,068 Nor Cal P pisces9 OP Member
OP pisces9 Member P Joined: May 2008 Posts: 1,068 Nor Cal	HI! mine is 3/9 $\:\)$ how are you? ill check your post... Pisces M 31 H 32 M 7 yrs S 5/10 Beginning Contact! Vibes Hot Tub Cheese

Re: Sending positive vibes to my H! pisces9 #1525023 07/19/08 06:11 PM
Joined: Jul 2008 Posts: 1,118 P poet Member
poet Member P Joined: Jul 2008 Posts: 1,118	I'm OK, Pisces. I'm at work now, but the H was home last night. The update is on my thread. Thanks, s ;0

Re: Sending positive vibes to my H! pisces9 #1525170 07/19/08 10:22 PM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 3,326 London, UK J JCJ Member
JCJ Member J Joined: May 2008 Posts: 3,326 London, UK	Hiya Just checking in to see how your weekend is going. I'm glad you enjoyed the concert. Did Coldplay sing their new album or was it old stuff? Hope you are enjoying your weekend and everything is going as you would like. (((Pisces))) Julia M- May 2006 D - Aug 2010 Now travelling the world

Re: Sending positive vibes to my H! JCJ #1525759 07/20/08 06:07 PM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 1,068 Nor Cal P pisces9 OP Member
OP pisces9 Member P Joined: May 2008 Posts: 1,068 Nor Cal	Hi y'all! well my H emailed me back (said he would call me tonight) and said he would like to do dinner for our anny! he said "nothing crazy but i would like that"... yay!! im so happy..and its funny bc im still a bit guarded... so tell me- he wouldn't want to spend time togetehr on our anny if he wasnt SHOWING he wanted to start working on our M- right? i love what our brans can make us think... ill be mello- fun dinner, basic card (funny not mushy smooshy) and some sports related item $\:\)$ $\:\)$ $\:\)$ $\:\)$ Pisces M 31 H 32 M 7 yrs S 5/10 Beginning Contact! Vibes Hot Tub Cheese

Re: Sending positive vibes to my H! pisces9 #1525774 07/20/08 06:19 PM
Joined: Jul 2008 Posts: 1,118 P poet Member
poet Member P Joined: Jul 2008 Posts: 1,118	"so tell me- he wouldn't want to spend time togetehr on our anny if he wasnt SHOWING he wanted to start working on our M- right?" Let's hope so, Pisces, My anniversary with my H was on Memorial Day Weekend and he dropped the bomb the very next week. (Of course, we were fighting constantly at the time). So, it's a good thing for you, but absolutely no fighting. Have fun and keep your DBing goals in order, K? hugs, S

Re: Sending positive vibes to my H! poet #1525783 07/20/08 06:26 PM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 1,068 Nor Cal P pisces9 OP Member
OP pisces9 Member P Joined: May 2008 Posts: 1,068 Nor Cal	we havent fought in months- so im not worried about that..the progress has been great too... i will keep my DB'ing in check- forvever.. i havent slipped once since the bomb .... it will be just a ncie, easy night! thanks S Pisces M 31 H 32 M 7 yrs S 5/10 Beginning Contact! Vibes Hot Tub Cheese

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