I can only play Blackbird really, really slowly. But it is sounding better and better.
All I can say is that my H has always put things off until the very last minute. Which was pretty good for our M because I am a big plan in ahead person, so we really balanced each other out. He taught me that I need to be more spontaneous. But the procastination isn't a good trait in all circumstances. Plus he has been in such a fog that I dont' think he is able to really deal with things....
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08
This thread should be locking up soon. When it does, I guess I need to move onto surviving.
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08
You sound good Sara. I love the storage fee idea....if he is late...then it is out on the curb! He is dillusional. Reality is really going to set in for him soon....especially when he runs out of that money from the D settlement. If he is anything like my H (and I think we have established that he is)...then it won't take long for him to blow through that money.
This thread should be locking up soon. When it does, I guess I need to move onto surviving.
That's cool. But I hope you will visit us sometimes, there's only going to be a few of us "old-timers" left here. It seems like everyone has moved to Surviving in the last week or 2. I guess that's good, but have you seen how darn cheery they are over there; like a constant party!!! I don't know if I can do that much cheery and PMA all the time!!! Maybe in a bit I'll be able to; we are a little more serious in this section I think! And of course I'll probably be joining you in a month or two... Karen
Sara, good for you. You are back in charge and H is having to face some of the consequences of his actions. YAY SARA!!!
You are awesome! As far as the Porn Hunt, I hope you find it and get rid of it.
Your moms reaction to the shirt thing made me giggle and the storage fee had me rolling, stick to it. That would be great!
Keep up the great things in your life and I'll visit you in Surviving. I'm with Karen though...everyone is moving on, which is good in some ways, but kinda sad in others.
Have a great day. Corey
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
I am doing alright. You I feel like when I am with other people now adays, I am back to myself. My mom commented that I dont' seem nearly as stressed. But honestly, when I am all alone at night I most often cry myself to sleep. I remember when the only other boyfriend I had before H cheated on me and we broke up, I cried myself to sleep for 2 solid months. So I think it will be awhile since marriage was so much more than just a boyfriend relationship. Even though my H is a mean person, I still really miss the nice guy that I knew. I wish I had a chance to say goodbye to him before he turned into this other person.
I am still working on the house. I am really trying to turn it into mine and not ours. It has been fun. And....I am going to Disney on Sunday and will be gone for a week. I really think this trip is the best thing I can do for myself right now.
Thanks for checking on me.
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08
And of course I'll probably be joining you in a month or two... Karen