Thanks Jack. I believe I have stopped the fighting.

Here is another sucker moment though....

She just text me about five after six. Do you have kids. I text back yes. She text what do you want me to do, I'm taking a shower. I said do whatever you want.

She asks what the kids are doing. I said watching Tv and making a movie. She text back what? I text what do you want to do?

Then she goes dead on communication.

I text what is your problem. Nothing?

Then I text. Why can't you be up front and honest with me?

Now nothing... That was twenty minutes ago....

Yes, I just can kneel down and pray...

So she suckered me into picking up the kids and made no other arrangements with me. Left work. Apparently went straight home to take a shower and now nothing.

Makes me think of monsters. Makes me think none of this makes sense. Devoted mother who didn't want to ever leave these kids side for a minute. Now she gets off work and doesn't even bother with them.

Should I have demanded a time or something? I mean what the heck am I suppose to do?

She doesn't act adult enough to even talk with me about a schedule.

Am I suppose to act like a goof and call her? Am I suppose to act like an even bigger goof and drive down to her house?

Everything is always one big F'n secret.