Thanks Jack. I believe I have stopped the fighting.
Here is another sucker moment though....
She just text me about five after six. Do you have kids. I text back yes. She text what do you want me to do, I'm taking a shower. I said do whatever you want.
She asks what the kids are doing. I said watching Tv and making a movie. She text back what? I text what do you want to do?
Then she goes dead on communication.
I text what is your problem. Nothing?
Then I text. Why can't you be up front and honest with me?
Now nothing... That was twenty minutes ago....
Yes, I just can kneel down and pray...
So she suckered me into picking up the kids and made no other arrangements with me. Left work. Apparently went straight home to take a shower and now nothing.
Makes me think of monsters. Makes me think none of this makes sense. Devoted mother who didn't want to ever leave these kids side for a minute. Now she gets off work and doesn't even bother with them.
Should I have demanded a time or something? I mean what the heck am I suppose to do?
She doesn't act adult enough to even talk with me about a schedule.
Am I suppose to act like a goof and call her? Am I suppose to act like an even bigger goof and drive down to her house?