Watch out world, she's answering her own questions! Yay!
Somewhere in DR it talks about viewing your spouse as a neighbor who's an acquaintance. Would you put that much thought about a phone call if it was a neighbor asking?
My therapist also gave me a rule of thumb. If I can't make a decision or waffle about it, my answer is no. I can always go back and reassess, but I have someplace to start out from.
