You are being way too logical and analytical about the nature of female sexual desire and the role of fantasy.
I know this could be true. I'm just having a hard time making it work for me. So far about the best I've managed is to shut up about my analytical thoughts.
The concept of not thinking about something is alien to me. I just want to do the right thing. It just feels too easy to be true--I just stop thinking and hope for the best, and it all works out? Impossible! TANSTAAFL! And I know that thinking it through has gotten me nothing but misery for ten years, and I know that I'm finally seeing things change between us for the better, but I still don't trust it.
Anybody here see Ronin? Spence: "You think too hard." Sam: "Nobody ever told me that before."