Originally Posted By: whatisis
So my job now is to not personalize this lack of getting back to me. I need to recognize that this is a person who can't or just doesn't know how to say "thanks but no thanks". It has nothing to do with my desirablility etc, part of me says "It's just one more woman saying you're nothing to me" so I need to catch that and squash it like a bug!


WII,

Why worry about PL, exW or any woman? The last time I checked, there were lots of attractive single women on plant Earth..... Go find another one!

NMD


"Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a marriage last --more than passion or even sex!" - Simone Signoret