On the sex thing, I have no clue. It's different for everybody. My stbX never tried to initiate sex while we were seperated, we were ML until a month before he left our home. And it felt good, as if he was trying to connect with me. I had asked him about it, in front of my therapist. He said :I don't know why, I just want to ML to you. She said to both of us, he was trying to hold on to us, his effort to help our marriage...
Do what you feel is right. That's the best I can think of. K
