I just wanted to post on your thread because you are always there for me. I wish I could express in words how much that means to me. I really wish I knew the full history of your story (I tried in the search engine, only goes back a year).
How in the WORLD did you get from first bomb to second bomb, OW involved, told "never loved you" (me, same thing) to piecing?????
It seems SO inconceivable to me right now and h is "so f'ing happy" with ow that it seems only an absolute miracle could make "piecing" happen for us.
But as you have said to me, my sitch is different as h is an a-hole and I am realizing, basically abusive. You're right. So, I don't want you to get all "preachy" on me girl and say, now mary, didn't I say to you, that h is a bad guy, yada, yada -- lol!
Anyway, I wish I could take you to brunch and I wish you didn't live in freaking Cali. Move to New York -- WAY hipper!!